In the adult world, there’s nothing better than having paid slips, feeling good about your own body and having sex with whoever you feel the most horny! Furthermore, it is in sex that we rediscover our pleasure through touch and – let us not forget – through the speech of the other. Cursing sex then…surely fall into the category of spicy fucks that unleash our wildest side in bed!

Do you want to learn which curses at the H time are the best to make the intimate moment more exciting? Keep reading this post and see our incredible selection of naughty phrases that will make sex with profanity an experience of great pleasure!

13 Swear phrases to say right away H

Communication is essential in human life. This statement gains even more strength when we are inside four walls! Keeping in mind that consent is as important as the exchange of caresses, kisses and nibbles, it is necessary to talk first with your partner or partner to align the expectations of each one.

Knowing what to say to drive your company crazy in bed is one of the premises of dirty talk – an English expression translated as dirty talk. So, talking before, during and after the hot moment between you can surprise you both in a very good way, whether it’s spicy questions or sentences with a heavier erotic charge!

Make a deal and tell each other what swearing and swearing excites you in bed and what not to do at the right time to avoid embarrassment and go beyond cursing into humiliating. The atmosphere of excitement that sex with name calling provides is perfect when both agree with the idea of ​​being called names during sex!

Did the lack of inspiration hit you around? Breathe that Dona Coelha’s blog brought a great list of phrases with curses for you to try your crush! Meet:

1. “Catch me with everything, shameless”;
2. “Show what you’re here for, your/your asshole”;
3. “I love it when you use your language like that, bastard”;
4. “Are you too lazy to get in, bum?”;
5. “I’m here for you! Use me any way you want, dog”;
6. “Squeeze my thigh, ordinary”;
7. “Pull my hair harder, naughty”;
8. “Do you like this, wanton?”;
9. “I’m naughty/o just for you, my/my rascal/a”;
10. “Can’t you stop being this delight, your/your bastard?”;
11. “Only for when I say, your blowjob”;
12. “Dominate me here and now, bad character”;
13. “I’ve been wanting you since breakfast you idiot.”

Tips for swearing sex catch on fire!

Hot sex doesn’t survive just from loud moans! There are more tricks to getting dirty talk wild and potent just the way you want it. As long as you always feel free to test the phrases with cursing at the right time, know that the phrases will flow more naturally in your voice and both will enjoy the moment much more! Here are the little secrets that will give you more confidence to know what to say at the time:

1) Know your company’s profile well

Acting in an extroverted way in everyday life does not mean that the person is not shy at the right time, because sex is still taboo for many out there! Being more or less naughty in bed depends a lot on the real personality of those involved. Remember that your company may be in the process of becoming more intimate with you in order to completely put aside your own shyness, so it’s important to carefully watch each other’s reactions!

If you or your company are not comfortable using heavier words, adapt the examples we cited above for softer language. It’s time to put your creativity into play, baby!

If you don’t know very well the person you want to have fun in bed with, gradually try out some spicy lines. Realize whether this excites you or not. Naturally, you will adjust the rhythm of speech and movements that get you most excited.

2) Use name-calling to create expectations for sex

The magic of sex starts happening long before the date, doesn’t it? Stimulating the imagination of the other while it’s not time to see each other is one of the best ways to drive a person crazy !

And if cursing works on time, why not use it in your messages to seduce the crush from a distance? That way the person will already capture your intention and will know what awaits you on the date!

3) Discover your sexiest voice

Saying out loud the curses you intend to use at the time of let’s see is a super easy technique that will help you get familiar with the heavier words, especially when cursing is not a common act in your daily life.

Another important detail: train your voice so that the sentence comes out naturally and you can demonstrate by the tone of voice how excited you are for the intimate moment. Talking nonsense into the ear of someone you’re horny will have the right effect when there’s confidence in the way it’s said, you bet!

4) Prepare to be cursed back

Sex is reciprocity in many ways, isn’t it? This is also true of swearing sex. The game gets more exciting when the two people use dirty talk fulfilling the deal they made earlier. That is, knowing the limit of heavy words that each one understands as stimulating, not disrespectful.

5) Open up to new experiences in sex

If not the main tip, this is one of the most important when it comes to “let’s see”. Opening up to new experiences goes far beyond accepting what the partner wants to discover in sex. It has to do with looking at sex with a more understanding, secure and trusting look.

It is at this moment that discovering our own wishes and desires becomes a prerequisite ! So, before joining new experiences, try to understand what you really like! When we know our limitations, in addition to making it easier to identify what needs to be worked on better in ourselves, we are also able to play fair with the partnership and impose certain limits!

With the amazing tips and ideas that we’ve brought in today’s content, do you realize how name-calling has a super aphrodisiac power in sexual intercourse? And to get the boner high, check out our maddening playlist with great songs to get laid.

Wednesday, January 5. 10am. I put on a porn movie connecting the headphones to the computer for inspiration.

(Each one starts the day as they want)

A couple is having sex on the couch in doggy style . She moans so loudly that it scares me that someone in my family could have heard the sound.

I take off a headset and check that everything is still in order.

When I look back at the screen, they have changed positions . But there is something that remains the same.

She continues to express the pleasure to voices while he only lets out the occasional snort. Nothing more.

The scene is common – the one of them being quiet while having sex – and it is something that has been repeated for years in my sex life .

Rare have been the times that I have come across someone capable of loosening up and moaning.

When porn dad teaches that letting go of those high-pitched sounds and with an almost plaintive undertone is feminine, what man would dare to replicate them?

Surprisingly, we are surrounded by male moans in our day to day life.

They are the ones that Nadal drops when he plays tennis, hitting the ball with all his might.

They are also the ones you hear the musclemen in the gym when they pick up the dumbbells and do chest presses .

The more weight, the more effort and the louder is the groan. In that context releasing the sound is not ashamed.

It’s okay to moan if it’s to prove you’re pushing your body to the limit , with a show of strength worthy of a bodybuilding competition.

But not to stimulate or enjoy more with your partner . According to science, this unstoppable scream facilitates lung ventilation which helps relaxation.

Non-verbal communication during sex also means enjoying the moment more and therefore, greater intimate satisfaction.

So letting out the moans has so many benefits, it’s too good not to .

As a sound guide, they serve us as indicative . We know he is enjoying it and that motivates us to keep going.

To suck deeper, bite harder, lick more often or move faster .

As good voyeurs , we like to see him surrendered to what he is feeling. And there is nothing like the boost of self-esteem for that pleasure that we deliver – and at the same time it belongs to us for generating it.

That makes us horny, come on.

Although it is not always consulted, feeling pain at the time of penetration during sexual intercourse is a very common problem and should never be considered normal. It can affect women of all ages and although it can be caused by various reasons, one of the most common is the involuntary contraction of the pelvic floor muscles. This contraction is commonly called vaginismus, and it causes partial or total closure of the vagina, which, in addition to pain, prevents penetration. In this post, explains how to treat this problem and what other causes can cause pain at the time of penetration.

1. Vaginismus

Vaginismus can make it painful, difficult, or impossible to have sex, perform a gynaecological exam, or insert a tampon. It is a sexual dysfunction and therefore it should be consulted and treated, as it can be an indicative symptom of other gynaecological health problems (endometriosis, pelvic inflammation, fibroids, sexually transmitted infections, vaginal stenosis …). Although it can also be the consequence of negative previous sexual experiences, lack of desire, a repressive education in childhood or adolescence, problems of vaginal dryness – very frequent as the age of menopause approaches – or, simply, the fear of a pregnancy.

Often times, the cause of vaginismus is a bad first experience , out of fear of feeling pain the first time, because the relationship was not entirely desired, or because the necessary time was not spent to achieve arousal and facilitate lubrication. If left untreated, it can end up causing anxiety, insecurity, frustration, and personal and relationship problems, because it affects both sexual satisfaction and psychological well-being.

The first step is always to consult with a gynaecologist who specializes in sexual dysfunction and to be honest. If you have a partner, it is important to talk openly about this problem and not feel guilty. If you have to do therapy or exercises, it is important that you are informed and that you go, if necessary, to the visits so that you know how to act and help. In general, in addition to a first physical examination and reviewing symptoms and a complete medical history, the doctor may order an ultrasound to examine the internal organs (it can be done abdominally) and rule out possible malformations and diseases such as endometriosis or the presence of fibroids or myomas.

It is very likely that your doctor will tell you to go to a pelvic floor physiotherapy specialist to explain where the vaginal muscles are located and to help you become aware of how they contract and relax. Through specific exercises, breathing techniques or the use of vaginal dilators and massages, the muscles in the area can be relaxed. The answer is usually very good.

2. Organic problems

Pain during intercourse can also be caused by vaginal malformations , pelvic diseases , scars from surgical interventions (for example: episiotomy) or vulvodynia , a dysfunction of nervous origin characterized by chronic pain in the vulvar area, tenderness and stinging on contact. Also, an inflammation of the intestine (from ulcerative colitis , Crohn’s disease ), very severe constipation or other intestinal diseases(infections, gas, etc.) can also make penetration painful. Your gynaecologist must be informed and refer you to the specialist that he / she considers most appropriate.

3. Endometriosis

If the pain is felt in a deeper area, it may be a symptom of endometriosis, cysts, or problems with the uterus. Endometriosis occurs when endometrial tissue leaves the uterus and spreads to other gynecological or organic areas. It often causes pain in the pelvic area, the bottom of the vagina, and the rectum . It is important to go to a center that has specialists in this disease, so that they can address it in a comprehensive way, since it can also compromise fertility. Treatment can be pharmacological or surgical, each case and its evolution must be evaluated, since this disease requires follow-up.

4. Vaginal dryness

It is common in menopause and postpartum, and it can also be caused, in some cases, by taking hormonal contraceptives . In general, in the postpartum case, it is essential to respect the time indicated to resume sexual intercourse and avoid penetration at the beginning, especially if there has been an injury – episiotomy – or tear. Over time, the scars heal and the perineum area regains elasticity. Take some time. For menopause, a lubricant can be used and, if necessary, the doctor may indicate the application of a hormonal treatment, orally or locally (cream or ovules). If it is due to other causes, it is important to detect them and never force penetration if there is not a good lubrication and desire. If the hormonal contraceptive reduces desire and lubrication, a better alternative must be sought. In our center we have a Unit specialized in Regenerative and Functional Gynaecology where you can check what treatments exist to solve this problem. 

5. Infections

They can be of bacterial or viral origin: vaginitis, cystitis … Some, like herpes, affect the vulva and cause pain. They can also be accompanied by a discharge of color or smell different from normal. The treatment should be indicated by your gynaecologist, after conducting an examination and the tests that he considers necessary to determine the cause.

6. Psychological origin

If the problem does not have a physical cause, then therapy with a sexuality specialist will need to be done. Although it may seem complex, you can achieve good results relatively quickly and notice positive changes with just a few sessions. It is also important to take time to improve your self-knowledge of your own body and to enjoy sexuality and contact with your partner without focusing on penetration. In our centre we have a specific Unit to deal with these problems.

Bottom line: feeling pain during intercourse IS NOT NORMAL. You should always inform your gynaecologist to make a diagnosis and indicate what steps to follow to treat this problem and solve it as soon as possible, since in addition to affecting your sexual relations and as a couple, it can be a symptom of other health problems.